Loving Without Boundaries: CNM Coaching and Education

Loving Without Boundaries is hosted by Kitty Chambliss, a relationship coach who specialises in polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. The show takes an explicitly educational approach, using coaching frameworks to address the relational challenges that come up in CNM: jealousy, insecurity, communication breakdowns, managing multiple relationships, and the internal work that non-monogamy tends to surface.

Coaching framework

The coaching orientation distinguishes Loving Without Boundaries from shows that are primarily community voices or personal stories. Kitty approaches the content as someone helping listeners develop specific capacities, understanding jealousy rather than just surviving it, communicating needs rather than avoiding the conversation, building agreements that serve everyone rather than defaulting to rules that protect one partner at another's expense.

The approach will appeal to listeners who want practical frameworks rather than just solidarity and shared experience. It may feel overly structured to listeners who prefer more organic conversation.

Topics covered

The show covers jealousy and compersion in depth, communication tools for CNM relationships, how to open an existing relationship, managing time across multiple partnerships, solo polyamory, and the intersection of self-development and non-monogamy. Guest interviews feature other coaches, therapists, and practitioners.

Who it's for

Listeners who are approaching non-monogamy with intentionality and want support with the internal and relational work involved. Particularly useful for people earlier in their CNM journey who are navigating the first wave of challenges, or for those who have hit a specific difficulty (chronic jealousy, communication problems, a struggling primary relationship) and want structured guidance rather than community anecdote.

Less useful for experienced practitioners who have already developed their own frameworks, or for those whose primary interest is swinging or lifestyle rather than the relational and psychological dimensions of non-monogamy.