Find CNM Events
A curated directory of polyamory meetup groups, lifestyle events, and CNM communities by city. We link to the communities and platforms where events are organised — not individual listings, which go stale quickly. Select your city to see what's active.
Event type
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Major annual events
Recurring CNM conferences and retreats worth planning around.
July (annual)
Loving More Retreat
Pennsylvania, US
Long-running residential retreat for polyamorous people. Workshops, community building, and relationship skills in a retreat format. One of the oldest CNM-focused events in North America.
February (annual)
PolyLiving Conference
Philadelphia, US (+ online)
One-day polyamory conference with workshops, speakers, and community events. In-person and online options; accessible entry point for people new to CNM community events.
August (annual)
OpenSF
San Francisco, US
San Francisco's annual sexuality conference with significant CNM programming. Workshops on polyamory, relationship anarchy, and adjacent topics alongside broader sexuality education.
October (annual)
Poly Dallas Millennium
Dallas, Texas, US
Multi-day polyamory convention covering the full range of CNM relationship structures. One of the larger US CNM events; strong Texan and Southern US community presence.
Varies (annual)
CatalystCon
Various US cities
Sexuality education conference with broad programming including CNM relationships, communication, and intimacy. Professional and community-oriented; speakers include researchers and practitioners.
Varies (annual)
Euro Poly Con
Various European cities
European polyamory conference rotating between cities. Multilingual programming, community building across national CNM communities. Check current year location on Meetup and Facebook.