CNM Dating App Reviews
Standardised reviews of every major platform for consensual non-monogamy. We use the same methodology for every review — pricing, verification, moderation, user base, and CNM-specific features — so you can compare across platforms without discount for how they're marketed.
Feeld
7.5 /10
Feeld Review: Is It Still the Best CNM Dating App?
The dominant CNM platform — strong brand, large network, but verification gaps and moderation inconsistencies keep it from being the definitive answer it could be.
Best for: Urban CNM seekers, especially polyamorous and kink-curious users
OkCupid
6.5 /10
OkCupid for Non-Monogamous Dating
The most CNM-friendly mainstream app. Not built for CNM, but more thoughtfully configured for it than most. Better for polyamory than swinging.
Best for: People who want a large user base with CNM-friendly profile options
#Open
7 /10
#Open Review: Events, Community, and Dating in One App
More than a dating app. The events and community layer is genuinely valuable. Smaller network than Feeld, but more intentional about CNM.
Best for: Community-oriented CNM people, especially in cities with active #Open event scenes
Kasidie
6 /10
Kasidie Review: Swinger Community Assessment
A long-running platform with real community depth for the swinging world. The UX is showing its age, but the network in key regions remains valuable.
Best for: Couples and singles in the swinging and lifestyle community
SLS
5 /10
SLS (SwingLifeStyle) Review: Time to Move On?
Once the dominant swinger platform. Significant technical and UX decline over recent years. The network still has value; the product itself increasingly doesn't.
Best for: Established members with existing SLS connections — hard to recommend for new joiners
Fab Swingers
7 /10
Fab Swingers Review: The UK Lifestyle Community's Home Platform
The dominant UK lifestyle platform — not by default, but because it has earned the community. Strong regional coverage, a functional free tier, and the most comprehensive UK events directory available.
Best for: UK swinging and lifestyle community — couples, single females, and single males in that order
Our review methodology
Every platform is evaluated against the same criteria: user base size and CNM distribution, verification and safety features, profile depth and CNM-specific options, moderation quality, pricing and value, and overall experience. Scores reflect genuine assessment, not affiliate commission rates. Read the full methodology →