Non-Monogamy.com is an independent editorial resource for people navigating consensual non-monogamy. That means polyamory, open relationships, swinging, relationship anarchy, kink, and every other structure where more than two people are involved with each other's knowledge and consent.
The site exists because the information that exists is fragmented, often surface-level, and frequently written by people observing the community rather than participating in it. We aim to be the resource that serious practitioners and curious newcomers both find useful.
What we do
We review dating platforms that serve CNM communities — with consistent methodology and without letting affiliate relationships influence our assessments. We write practical guides to the real challenges of CNM: communication, jealousy, structure, and the conversations that actually matter. We maintain a glossary of community vocabulary. We build city guides for finding CNM community in real places.
Independence
Non-Monogamy.com is editorially independent. We have affiliate relationships with some of the platforms we review — when you sign up through our links, we may earn a commission. This is how independent editorial sites sustain themselves. It does not influence our reviews: our methodology is transparent, our scores reflect our genuine assessments, and we will tell you clearly when a platform isn't worth your time. Read our affiliate disclosure and review methodology for the full picture.
Who writes here
The site is built and maintained by people who are part of the CNM community. We use the vocabulary because it's ours. We understand the landscape because we've navigated it. We're not researchers observing something interesting — we're participants trying to make the available information more honest and more useful.